revive

As mothers we give up alot, not just our sanity but ourselves. Mothers give up there identities becoming just the care giver, the cook, the driver. For most of us we give up things we used to think were accentual, finding out their just frivolous in the big picture. Our children's needs and dreams take over our lives. Somewhere on this road our own dreams get forgotten.

"It is never to late -- in fiction or in life -- to revive."
                                                         -Nancy Thayer

For the sack of my girls i am taking a stand i am turning this car around and going to pick up my dreams again. I can be a good mother and have the something more that i need as an individual. I think it would make it easier for my girls to accomplish things they want if they see me fighting for what i want now. Mothers are guideposts to womanhood and so i need to show that there is more then just one side to that. A woman can be wild, adventurous, loving, nurturing, fierce. A woman is like the fazes of the moon ever changing and ever the same. So why only show your daughters the mother, show them the strong woman willing to go to the limits to make her dreams come true show them that its possible alleviate their fear of going after their own. I will revive my dreams it is never to late.